How to Detect Lies??

           You should have felt the pain of being Lied to. When this happens in a Relationship, its  really unbearable. When you realise the truth by your loved ones, the cheating and lies keeps haunting us. What if you figure out early that someone is Lying to you?? Won't it be better to know the Truth early? Yes, it will be. This Skill of Detecting LIES will help you everywhere in Judging a Person and help you to decide, upon whom to put Faith on.


 Here are some Gestures which has been observed to accompany when a Person Lies.

• A Liar will make little or no eye contact.

• He will keep his arms stiff and move it mechanically as if directed by some external force against his WILL.

• His hands may try to cover his mouth.

• Touching the nose and Scratching behind the ear

• He shrugs his Shoulders a little trying to be Casual.

• The persons hand Gestures will be inappropriate to his Words.

• Expressions won't be related to Verbal meaning. For example Frowning while saying "I love you" 

• Unusual head movements 

The List below shows how a Liar Reacts. 

• When you ask a Question and if he looks to his right-top ie. your Left while or before answering, then he is telling you a constructed story. Well, this is for a Right handed person and a Left handed person does exactly the opposite.

• A liar might place some object like Coffee cup, books etc. between both of you.

• He will not feel comfortable sitting in front of you and may move his head and Body away from you.

• FAKE SMILE -  When you smile naturally, the facial muscles move involuntarily. In a fake smile the muscles are forced and so they move in a Formal or orderly manner.Best way to detect a Fake smile is to LOOK into the Eyes. In a Real smile, the eyes become Squished. Only a few people can control their eye muscles during a fake smile.

                  

                          FAKE SMILE

REAL SMILE 

• Some are clever enough to avoid your question and deny it indirectly with some other reply at the same time make you feel satisfied that your question has been answered

• When you try to change the subject, if he follows up and feels relaxed then he has something in dark about the previous topic.If he is confused with the sudden change of topic, then the person is innocent. You can believe him.

• Some use Humour or Sarcasm to Escape from you

                A foot note to all my fellow Boys. I'm sorry I used 'HE' in the above list. A fact for all of Us  is that, "It has been found that more than 80% of women have admitted that they LIE which they think to be harmless - truths" . Girls these are not my words. I have extracted them from Susan Shapiro Barash's Book "The truth about why Women Lie" and also that there is a Good Reason behind most of the Women's LIES. 

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